I’m going to tell you how to have a fulfilling relationship so you don’t have to live a life together and feel you’re alone.
In fact, many couples (unfortunately) bury themselves in a bad routine which, over time, becomes fatal for them…
I say “bad routine” on purpose because it is inevitable, but it is necessary to find the rhythm. That will establish your relationship balance and development.
But then does this mean that once settled, you can no longer thrive? Well no!
Do you want to nurture the passion that drives you and that binds you so strongly to each other, but you don’t really know how to go about it?
Let’s see this together.
The communication art in a fulfilling relationship
Let’s start with the beginning.
The first and most important rule to follow for a successful couple’s life is to communicate.
Do you want to do or say something? Do you need to express yourself or have particular demands? Then let it be known!
If you keep quiet, you are endorsing; and that can apply to a host of things that are detrimental to the flourishing of your couple relationship. Communication is about expressing yourself and sharing, but it’s also crucial to reveal your feelings for the person you love. No need to rack your brain: Get to the point as simply as possible as long as you are clear about how you feel.
” I love you! “
“I hate you for making this decision without telling me about it, but I would like to know your take on it! “
“Tomorrow deal before stresses me out, and I don’t know how to handle this… What do you think? “
Everyone should have his secret garden. But for the best couple’s interests, you must communicate without restraint.
Guess what! Communication is essential under the covers too. When you prefer one position over another, say so! Express yourself if you don’t like this foreplay in particular. You would like to test a few madness, say so.
Be complicit and listen to each other.
Have confidence in yourself, but also, and above all, in your partner.
Jealousy, to some extent, can devastate a couple. Trust yourself, but also give your trust to your loved one.
If you have any doubts, then communicate. And to have a fulfilling relationship, you have to trust each other. Also, if you don’t have confidence in yourself, expect conflicts! When you don’t have confidence in yourself, you doubt the other, and therefore things inevitably go wrong.
Touch each other more
The importance of touch has its place in the heart of a happy couple. By that, I mean it is essential to touch each other: to take the hand, to hug, to bicker, to caress, etc. It is necessary to have physical contact because it goes hand in hand with desire. And it, therefore, helps to maintain seduction and sexual attraction between lovers.
Kissing improves relationship satisfaction
Kissing is crucial, whether it is in the mouth or on any other part of the body. A kiss is one of the most representative synonyms of love and affection.
The importance of food sharing in a fulfilling relationship
You should take gastronomy seriously and eat together to show off your love.
As a couple, you eat your meals together most of the time. So you might as well eat well and have fun (this will influence everything else, including the happiness of the couple).
Have a good meal in front of a romantic movie. Organize romantic dinners in the restaurant, or prepare an excellent breakfast with your partner’s favorite ingredients.
There is no shortage of culinary options, so don’t forget them! You can also cook together (it can also end in sex, and that’s the point of the game of attraction that goes perfectly with cooking).
Fulfilling relationship: Surprise each other
Earlier, I told you about the routine. If it is inevitable, find a rhythm that goes with your relationship and does not degrade the passion between you. It is when you need to think about surprising your partner. No need to think about surprises out of your reach. Just keep it simple and think of, for example:
- Prepare a surprise dinner
- Excite your partner with an unexpected sexting round
- Have flowers or a box of chocolates delivered to your partner’s office
- Go for a weekend at the last minute
- Wear sexier underwear than usual
Face the problems and solve them right away
Face and solve your problems as soon as they arise! Never let it drag on, and above all, do not wait for it to pass over time since it will only get worse. It also ties in with the communication point. Avoid misunderstandings and find immediate solutions to any conflicts that bother you. As they say, make peace on the pillow!
Accept disagreements and differences
A relationship is full of differences and disagreements. To be different and to disagree when you are in a relationship is human. It’s not always all sunny, but it’s part of a successful couple. We have to understand and accept each other.
Fulfilling relationship: Live in reality
It’s necessary to realize that in a relationship, life is never all rosy! It is impossible! People who sincerely love each other, and have a fulfilling and lasting relationship, are those who love and support each other no matter what obstacles life puts in their way. Of course, you can have ups and downs. That’s normal, and it’s human.
Keep in mind the essential things, and from the moment you are on the same wavelength as your partner. Thus your quarrels will not be harmful to your life as a couple. They will come together once you realize that this is reality and not a fairy tale.
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Share roles and time
Share your schedule!
Have time in love, time alone, time with your friends, and time both as a couple and with friends or family. It is important not to do everything as a couple! It is the opposite of a fulfilling couple relationship. And you have to allow yourself some freedom to each other so that both of you can have fun without being in a relationship.
In addition, you must share roles and decision-making power fairly. It doesn’t always have to be the same person who decides everything in your relationship! Everyone has to find their place and take turns proposing or agreeing on something.
Fulfilling relationship: Enjoy simple moments
Finally, take advantage of both.
Even in the simplest moments, realize that you love what you have rather than wanting what you don’t! If you have the chance, watch the movie “If Only” with Jennifer Love Hewitt, and you will see how necessary it is to make the most of every moment with the person you love.
Take nothing for granted. Live and love as if it were your last day. It is the only way to enjoy simple moments.
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